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    Preschool Activities – Essential To Prepare Your Child For School!

    By Jacaranda On October 19, 2009 1 Comment

    Going to school is the first major transition in a child’s life as this is the first time the kid is made to stay on his/ her own in a completely unfamiliar environment. Thus it is often advised that parents should get children habituated to certain prescribed activities which in turn will help them adjust with forthcoming changes. These are termed “preschool activities”.

    Preschool plays a pivotal role in helping kids cultivate valuable physical, mental, and emotional skills. It provides the ambience for children to get a feel of the structure and functioning of a real school.

    Preschool also prepares children to move away from the comforts of parental care and adjust themselves to a completely different learning situation. Preschool education aims at the overall development of toddlers so that they are able to face the challenges of more complicated and statutory education.

    Preschool activities concentrate on encouraging a child’s cognitive growth. The preschool curriculum encompasses basic social skills of communication with adults and peers. It also fosters the elemental feelings of friendship and sharing.

    Preschool activities may include:

    • Taking children out of the confines of the classroom is always a great way to teach basic knowledge. A visit to the zoo or local bird sanctuary can help them learn a lot about the world of birds and animals. These visits help children realize that learning can also be a fun experience.
    • Educational computer games and interactive activities are excellent ways to enhance a child’s hand and eye coordination. It also helps the child to get acquainted with alphabets and numbers.
    • Playing is a good way of developing a child’s concentration. Traditional preschool activities include playing with blocks, shapes, and colors. When children play with a particular object, their concentration levels are automatically enhanced.
    • Kids enjoy activities like drawing and scribbling. It gives them the scope to express their creativity. Preschool education can use this activity to develop the inherent creativity and sense of aesthetics in children.
    • Nursery rhymes and dancing continue to be the perennial area of interest for toddlers. Preschool curriculum encourages children to recite poems and nursery rhymes with physical gestures. This makes learning a more enjoyable and entertaining experience. Recitation also enhances the memorizing ability in preschool toddlers.
    • Physical development constitutes a major part of preschool education. Outdoor games and simple exercises help children develop a sense of physical fitness.

    Thus, preschool education should aim at holistic child development. Preschool activities should aim at maintaining a healthy balance between education and entertainment. Knowledge and impressions picked up at a preschool level cast an indelible imprint upon the tender minds of toddlers. Preschool experience goes a long way in transforming a toddler into a confident and eager learner.

    (Source:- www.educationaltechnologies.com)


    Top Reason Why Toddlers Throw Tantrums

    By Jacaranda On September 2, 2009 No Comments

    Toddlers throw tantrums as a way of expressing anger and frustration. We as parents should know how to handle a child’s tantrums. Learning to deal with temper tantrums takes patience, yelling and screaming will only cause the child to respond negatively.

    What causes a tantrum to form, how to deal with temper tantrums, to how to avoid a tantrum all together?

    Here are some of the Top Reasons why Toddlers throw tantrums

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    10 Careful Ways of Disciplining Children

    By Jacaranda On August 22, 2009 2 Comments

    There are more ways in disciplining your toddler. The ones listed here are probably the most obvious and common to all types of parents.

    Discipline has always been an issue in parenting. Children sometimes commit mistakes that get the worst out of every parent. However, disciplining your child does not have to be a traumatic process. After all, your aim for instituting discipline is a well-behaved child who can distinguish what is right from what is wrong and not a robot. Here are some ways on how parents can discipline their children without having to appear threatening.

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    Separation Anxiety in Toddlers and Children

    By Jacaranda On June 2, 2009 1 Comment

    It’s school time once again. Many of the first time parents will be looking for advise to help them with this new chapter in their parentinghood journey.

    I am pretty sure that there are many new parents out there that will be bringing their child to school for the first time. For several years, your baby has been clinging to you and dependent on you in whatever the things that he’s been doing and now, he will be on his own in school for the first time.

    This is the main reason that led me to post this article. This one is called “Separation Anxiety“.  Around the first birthday, many kids develop separation anxiety, getting upset when a parent tries to leave them with someone else and in this instance, leave them in school.

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    Parents Must Have Traits

    By Jacaranda On April 2, 2009 No Comments

    I’m writing on my own points of view and my own experiences on parenting yet as a Libran I can help to think or weigh on other peoples’ points of view. My experience as a child is wonderful before I become a parent myself.

    That’s why I’m taking note of these things:

    1. Sympathy. Looking back, my parents were too good, for me to do whatever I can to enjoy my youth. I can’t imagine how they’ve been so cool not to scold me on any thing I’ve tried on my innocent days, except for vices you know, but that’s also from my own will and self control. So being a parent now, you should consider what’s your child’s world today and don’t compare on how you were on your old days. To think that you’ve also done what you have wanted those times. And things have changed a lot on this fast growing world.
    2. Communication. You should have never ending talk and communication. I was thinking during our time, there were no cell phones massively made that time. How are communications back then? Okay there are landlines but how can you tell them of where you are if on the place you’re staying there are no phones or means of communications as well? That was horrible!!! That they are just waiting for you to come home safe and sound. So, I can’t imagine how they’ve slept every time we’re not yet in the house (or not thinking they haven’t slept at all). But as technology arises, we’re lucky to have cell phones and internet nowadays, even for those equipments, we will never be out of reach, so don’t waste every single moments.
    3. Guidance. Honestly, I can recall what our parents have been telling us, “wait ‘till you’re a parent”. And it’s true, but I’m always having thoughts that I like to raise my children the way my parents had raised me. For them not rebel on anything. It’s just a matter of reminding them of what’s the right thing or decision for them to make and not faltering to talk to them from time to time. In that case, you will know what kind of person they are and also guiding them not to be misleading because all they really want is our “attention”.
    4. Patience. They said “Patience” is our Virtue. You importantly should never lose this word. Not just this word, but its true meaning. Though sometimes you really want to explode but you really don’t know how good it will feel if you’ll surpass the temper on your head and practice being patient for all the situations you’ll encounter being a parent. Because this “word” really works and make the “word” work as well, gets? :D