Parents Must Have Traits

I’m writing on my own points of view and my own experiences on parenting yet as a Libran I can help to think or weigh on other peoples’ points of view. My experience as a child is wonderful before I become a parent myself.

That’s why I’m taking note of these things:

1. Sympathy. Looking back, my parents were too good, for me to do whatever I can to enjoy my youth. I can’t imagine how they’ve been so cool not to scold me on any thing I’ve tried on my innocent days, except for vices you know, but that’s also from my own will and self control. So being a parent now, you should consider what’s your child’s world today and don’t compare on how you were on your old days. To think that you’ve also done what you have wanted those times. And things have changed a lot on this fast growing world.
2. Communication. You should have never ending talk and communication. I was thinking during our time, there were no cell phones massively made that time. How are communications back then? Okay there are landlines but how can you tell them of where you are if on the place you’re staying there are no phones or means of communications as well? That was horrible!!! That they are just waiting for you to come home safe and sound. So, I can’t imagine how they’ve slept every time we’re not yet in the house (or not thinking they haven’t slept at all). But as technology arises, we’re lucky to have cell phones and internet nowadays, even for those equipments, we will never be out of reach, so don’t waste every single moments.
3. Guidance. Honestly, I can recall what our parents have been telling us, “wait ‘till you’re a parent”. And it’s true, but I’m always having thoughts that I like to raise my children the way my parents had raised me. For them not rebel on anything. It’s just a matter of reminding them of what’s the right thing or decision for them to make and not faltering to talk to them from time to time. In that case, you will know what kind of person they are and also guiding them not to be misleading because all they really want is our “attention”.
4. Patience. They said “Patience” is our Virtue. You importantly should never lose this word. Not just this word, but its true meaning. Though sometimes you really want to explode but you really don’t know how good it will feel if you’ll surpass the temper on your head and practice being patient for all the situations you’ll encounter being a parent. Because this “word” really works and make the “word” work as well, gets?

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